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Excerpt #3

Chapter Twelve:
Embracing the Mystical

I view all extensions of spirituality with a lens of twofold caution: does the 'community' of belief address others, or is it based in ego? Can it be tied to a sacred text or base? Profound wisdom of discernment with contemplative self brings us to know the difference. It's like my experience of the Minneapolis Uptown Art Festival and later festivities, years ago. I remember dancing with my college roommate in afternoon sun of the reggae band, Shangoya, surrounded by booths of opals, pottery and artwork. The fun continued into the evening and many of us drove to a party in St. Paul. We mingled as we listened to Pink Floyd, Rolling Stones and filled cups of frothy, keg beer. While we enjoyed living in the fun of the moment, we saw others choosing a different reality--they were stoned. They spoke to no one, they never moved, they simply sat 'in their own Private Idaho' as we used to say. The buzz from their pot most certainly provided an escape, a numbness, but they totally missed the reality of the party and the memories of fun shared by everyone else there. Was that their intent?

People behave similarly with spirituality. They look for the 'buzz' or escape it provides, but forget to use it as lens with which to view reality and move into truth of place in the world. The complacency of this particular view of spirituality lies in its temporary 'fix' or moment of bliss; it lacks transformation. Spiritual truth is active, not passive. Further, for many, these experiences remain in Ego rather than heart. For example, I hear women comparing the 'best' yoga classes to take, people enrolling in meditation competing for the 'best' experience of meditation, and churches providing the most 'popular' place to be spiritual. Indeed, people even measure their spirituality in human terms. Studying spiritual books, enrolling in classes, and competing to meditate deeper will provide steps of reflection and prepare us for contemplation, but the intent is always growth and transformation, in order to take spirit to others. We continue to live in this world and discern. We are not monopolized by a materialistic society of Ego because we are holding the 'get out of jail free' card the entire time. Heartfelt experience is catalyst for mindful presence and knowing our place to change and affect our world. The abundance of living and acting accordingly moves us into the power of ultimate experience. Our truth is a life of living differently, abundantly, miraculously. We recapture the dream of being created for intent. Women, we are called to get up off the couch and join the party.

Mindful discernment also gives vision to see Truth of intent in religious communities, defined by base as tied to sacred roots and text. I was shocked to read a few years ago about the prevalence of cults in our culture:

The cult problem is so prevalent, the chances of a family member joining a cult are greater than a family member catching chicken pox, four times greater than contracting AIDS, 90 times greater than contracting measles, and 45,000 times greater than contracting polio. We frequently see a great deal about bult tragedies in our media: Jonestown, Waco, Heaven's Gate Ð but the facts regarding cults are rarely divulged to the general public  Ð www.factnet.org, 'Danger of Cults is Growing'

All diverse religious choices, as healthy communities of spirit, have stood the test of time and are built from sacred text. I once searched a questionable religion and discovered a leader who centered the membership upon himself. Cult leaders keep the focus of love, devotion, and allegiance on themselves. Ironically, very much in state of Ego. Authentic faith-based religious communities focus on God, Buddha, and Allah. Discernment is lifelong. Protect your spirit and the spirit of those around you Ð it's as easy as a quick search online, or a question to someone you trust to know. The consequences of unhealthy religion are devastating to mind/body/soul.

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